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How to sing “Happy Birthday” in America

Rewind, if you will, to my first couple of weeks in the US. I’ve been very kindly invited to a birthday party with around 25 others in the West Village and we’ve had a fantastic evening. There’s been great food, lovely wine, and there’s some soothing background music which is creating the perfect ambiance.

Out comes a cake. A delicious looking cake. A double-decker chocolate cake, covered in sprinkles (I love sprinkles).

Cue the singing.

“Haaaappy Birthday to you”, I’m completely on board, I know this one, so I join in.
“Haaaappy Birthday to you”, I’m in tune, I’m in tempo, I’m good to go.
“Haaaappy Birthday dear Kylie”, it’s Gold for Australia, gold!
“Haaaappy Birthday to you!”, and I’ve made it through the whole song.

But there’s a pause.

Big Aussie BBQ 2026

Nobody is “Hip-hip”ing!? Poor Kylie, missing out on the best part of “Happy Birthday”!
Don’t worry, Aussie to the rescue:

“HIP HIP!”

Nothing. Crickets. Just a party of 25 lovely potential new friends staring at me like a fool. I’ve gone bright red and I have nowhere to go.

Now there’s laughter. What the hell was the Australian doing!? What is “hip hip!” asking for!?

So, my fair readers:
At the end of Happy Birthday, after the final “Happy birthday to you”, just sit down and eat cake.

Josh Pugh

Josh Pugh

Josh Pugh is the founder and CEO of America Josh, the largest community for Australians living in the United States — a network of more than 75,000 members across all 50 states, grown in part through the acquisition of the Australians in the USA and Aussies International communities. Originally from South Australia, Josh moved to New York in 2017 and became a US citizen in October 2025 — so the advice he publishes comes from having personally navigated the whole journey, from the E-3 visa to citizenship. Through America Josh he has written hundreds of practical, first-hand guides on moving to and living in the US: visas and immigration, taxes, healthcare, banking, housing and settling into life in New York City. Josh is also President of Variety – the Children's Charity of New York and Founder & CEO of Fortnight Digital. He lives in the New York area with his wife Stacey and their two sons, Danny and Liam.View Author posts

7 thoughts on “How to sing “Happy Birthday” in America”

  1. I once heard some Europeans singing Happy Birthday in English but instead of singing:

    “Haaaappy Birthday to you”,
    “Haaaappy Birthday to you”
    “Haaaappy Birthday dear Kylie”
    “Haaaappy Birthday to you!”

    They sang:

    “Haaaappy Birthday to you”,
    “Haaaappy Birthday to you”
    “Haaaappy Birthday, Haaaappy Birthday”
    “Haaaappy Birthday to you!”

    It was odd.

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